PUSH THROUGH IT !!!

Dear all  💚 Nobody is "The perfect human or example". Each one is either selfish or self-centered at the end of the day. It doesn't matter the fame someone has reached or how generous they have been to help others or they might be the most inspiring and motivational human being to another or they might give the best advice to the other to be "oneself" or "even say, love yourself u r just perfect in your own way". All this is only good to preach cus the person trying to be optimistic about the world hasn't been in the other person's shoes "LITERALLY". Being generous and supportive to the underprivileged kids or the unnoticed and unloved person is flawed, it is essential to demonstrate the actions that are preached.   None of us are ready to follow the advice that is often given to others. If happen to be an inspiration to others, it is significant to follow in the footsteps of their own advice. Live by example not just by words. Actio...

  Toxic!!! is what I hear  Many of us have walked passed this word, it is something we all hear and see from time to time through different modes of communication. wat does it try to communicate? Y does it circulate  through the society rapidly?  Everyone have experience with toxic people and some have toxic relationship. We all face these toxins in the society, workplace, school, college, family  and even at home. We hardly meet people who are considerate and grateful back.  These toxic people create an insidious impact on others , they can be a negative vibe , a demotivator , people who judge others , a close member who fails to understand others .Could be abused verbally and physically by those people. They might break us to pieces and shatters.  Once born, life does make things around easier, every phase as a new problem and a challenge , we meet new people who accidently enter and some people who are intentional. It is very important to decide who...

Hey guys !!!! Phewww ...... incidents , situations and affliction's drive me to write  at times. This one is definitely  coming out of my adversity. Every  women , like to stress on the  word " WOMEN "  who are said to be  fragile , reserved , wounded an completely the writer of her story. She is bonded by rules an is given a parameter  for her boundaries . She finds her life dictated by the people  around her , find a job by 25 get married at 28 have  kids by 30 enroll your child  in school at 34 take care of your in- law at 40 cus they are old  com' on  wen does she get to live her  life ?  where does she have a say ? Y does a women's life has to be systematic by following every order an rule.  She is muted  to her own opinions.  Where as the  change happened ? Will the society  stop thinking  towards accustomed traditions? I  as an individual ,  as a "Women " have desires , d...

 I rather portrait  myself as evolved , because that is what I have become over the years. Looking for closure over my lost love , trying to figure out my future , debating within me about marriage , I didn't find myself in a spot relaxing unless I face my issues head on . I did calculations inside , tried to confide in people who would least care made things complicated than before , making me realize I stranded every inch of my life.   If I had to make things right  or make things fall in place one at a time . I had to resolve my distressing issues one at a time too. To begin  with , finding closure that was lost. Wen starting something that ended on the solution of impossibilities , u rekindle the buried past that will definitely hurt . But on the  note of getting a closure it was completely  liberating to move forward leaving the past behind .  Having to move forward it only made things better and right , allowing  things fall in the...

Hi Life doesn't draw a finish line for any1 , it never ends nor does it have a stop.   Fighting for what you deserve despite every odds  ,  happens every day cuz  facing challenges and crossing obstacles does not end its kind of a loop that repeats its coarse.  Not much joy , happiness , peace ,love was ever found  this year . Was it worth ? To pass thru very turmoil , depression  , rejection , hardship , hurt and  break up to make through this year .  YES!! here is the year end note  It definitely wasn't a great year or even the best for any of us . This year was preciously one of those worst , exhausting an unimaginable nightmare  . It really  felt like going on a roller coaster  passing through depression , brokenness 8,  confusions , anger yet Was it worth ?  Its by default , when we go through an emotional turmoil there this millions of thoughts running in our mind , that literally places...

  Hiiiiiiii   This is really after a long time ... hope its good!!  Inferiority is a mutual bargainer of/with life ... It makes the decision,  creates boundaries, creates a path for people to outshine us more than we do for ourself.   This bargainer just covers us from seeing our potential, worth, the beautiful us it's just like buying a bargained product an fail to see the better options.  Likewise, Inferiority  bargainer takes charge of our emotions, our activities, our life, our potentials and so on... Who are we to blame??? It's a component that every human possess and a major parameter that literally make people become a victim of prejudice.   It begins from home, society, public places, mindset or a view of an individual, perspective of a group or a community or a frame of mind. Believe in YOU  to eradicate this complex , No one's less in anything when compared to anyone in this world. The truth is we are just letting the...

We all start with a bright sunny morning and travel down to experience a dark silent night. through the journey, we fail to realize who we are? and what we have become?  We run to be in course with the world, we take the rough and tough paths. Our battles are fought with fierce in us. We make hard decisions, not by explicit but by choice and preference in our life. We are devoted and steadfast, we stand back on every fall. We were not taught to give up and give in, that is, who we are. We cross every river, climb every deepest valley, run on every steep slope, yes,  " I have bruises, cuts, deep wounds, hurt and scars rooted, yet I wake up with a smile to the beaming rays and soak to the glowing moonlight".   We never cease to stop, we never fail to try, we are not afraid to take a leap, we don't back down even if it looks impossible.  We take a stand, make out the possibilities in tough situations, that is who we are. Through the voyage, I have become,  A TOUGH ...